How to Live a Better Single Life
It's the weekend. You feel like going out and have a good time. You phone your friends so that they can accompany you. To your disappointment, all your friends are already out! With their significant others - that is. So you put down your phone and feel very sad. Gradually, you are missing the times when you were being cuddled and taken cared of by a special someone in your life. What's more depressing is that you have been looking for a partner the moment your ex broke up with you. And yet, you still end up a failure. Your dates don't get follow ups. Your flirting skills seem like putting you down all the time. You end up feeling unattractive, boring and unwanted. You do have big problems and issues to deal with.
Do you know what your biggest problem is? Acceptance. That's your biggest problem. You won't be able to find happiness if you have not accepted the fact that, right now you are single. You need to accept this truth first because if you don't, you will end up desperate looking and wishing for a better half. Just like what's happening to you right at this moment. Good thing you end up to this page and decided to read through. Just continue reading and learn a thing or two about how to live a better single life. By the way, you just learned the first step: acceptance.
Once you have accepted that you are single, you must work on how you will build the shattered person you once were. It's time to get on your feet and work on the re-making of a confident and productive you. Your world has revolved around making your partner happy and satisfied. It is your turn to make yourself happy and satisfied by you. And this can be possible by doing things that will benefit you. Yes. You are figuring out where I'm pointing you at. It's all about you this time. Sit back and take some time to think. What do you want to do? What is it that thing that you really enjoy? Is it painting? Is it organizing parties? Is it poetry reading? Is it writing? Take your pick and make it as your goal. Once you have decided, head your way to achieving the goal.
Remember that you have 24 hours in a day. You sleep for, let's say, 6-7 hours or let's make it 8. You spend 9 hours for your job. That means you approximately have around 7 hours for self improvement. Have some time for exercise, watching the news, reading a good book and that new lesson you wish to learn. Learning new skills can boost your confidence. Do not take that privilege away from you. So, apart from doing what you really enjoy best, you can also consider learning something new. I am not going to encourage you to think of it this way but who knows?! You might end up meeting "the one" in that new world you are about to venture.
Just consider the wonderful things that you can explore now that you are not with a significant other. You can now choose which popcorn flavor you wish to devour at the movies. There is no need for you to reconsider the shameful look on your partner if you ever find wearing that old pair of jeans appropriate. You can spend the holidays with your parents or with friends or with anyone you wish. Basically, every thing in your life is your call now. So, why don't you start making the best out of your single life?
Singles Holiday: The Best Way to Holiday Alone
Everybody likes a good nice time off. Everybody needs a time without the workstation, without the official emails, weekend assignments, monthly targets and anything that can make anybody go crazy. In order to have that fun time you plan out a vacation, you have everything sorted out but at the last moment you come to know that two of your friends are down with fever, one is going back home and the other one is just giving silly excuses to avoid the expenses. So what do we do know, cancel all the plans or should be carry off with them. A single holiday is a perfect way to go on a vacation where you do not need a travel companion, all you need is will to make fun and have a ball.
Single travel holidays give you chance to experience a side of life which is in your normal routine is not possible to experience. The only person who needs to make up his/her mind for the holiday is you, and nobody else which is the biggest advantage of a singles holiday. A single tour to an exotic destination would rejuvenate your senses, and would also not be too heavy on your pocket.
To go on a single traveller tour, you just need to follow some easy steps and in no time you'll have it all planned. As a first step you should choose a holiday provider who deals in vacation for singles packages. Such providers are not hard to come by, however you should only for a provider having a significant experience in this field. There are providers out there with an experience of over 13 years, so they have all what it takes to give you one hell of an experience. Choose a holiday provider only after gathering sufficient information about them, which is normally available on their respective web portals. Information like the kind of tours they organize, the rates they offer etc.
When you've narrowed down on a single tours operator, it's time to choose all what you would want in your singles vacation. The types of vacations which you can choose from include options like short breaks, UK Dinner and dance holidays, single cruises, activity holidays etc. You can also opt for singles adventure holidays if you are an addict to the adrenalin rush. The adventures activities would include activities like mountaineering, river rafting, trekking, deep sea diving etc.
A singles holiday would let you interact with a number of like-minded people would who just like you are fun makers in the making (or are very good at it). You would also not be given any single supplements, i.e. you would be sharing your accommodations with such lively individuals.
To get a good deal out of the tour operator for your singles holiday, try and book the holiday 12-13 weeks in advance to get good discounts and avoid the availability issues.
Rules Of Attraction Explained In A Simpler Way
Most men think that attracting a good-looking female is difficult if not completely impossible, but that is false. Anyone has the ability to attract women that they are interested in and successfully pursue them, it just takes some know how. When pursuing a female it also helps to learn some signs of attraction, which will also be outlined.
The first thing to do that will greatly increase your chances of having that hot chick that caught your eye return interest in you is really simple; just be yourself. Women loves guys who are themselves as well as confident and secure in who that person is. Ladies can tell if you are nervous and some of them can tell when you are being fake; those things will get you nowhere! When you are calm and not over-thinking every move then it is a lot easier to keep conversations alive, flowing well, and light-hearted. It helps a lot if you have a good sense of humor so you can keep the girls laughing as well.
It may seem silly at first, but it really does help to attract women when you are a gentleman, especially on a first date. Being a gentleman means being attentive and well mannered towards the woman and treating her like a lady.
Women like men who take care of themselves. This does not only mean physique, but hitting the gym at least once in awhile is always a plus. Taking care of yourself means grooming, dressing well, and improving your knowledge. Intelligence can be a real turn on.
Attracting women online is a little different. The first thing you have to do is differentiate yourself somehow and show the girls that you are not just like all of the other guys online. Try to be charming and add humor to your profile. Next, make sure that you post recent pictures of yourself, preferably of you doing something that you enjoy to do. Be honest! No relationship should be based on lies so just don't do it. When you are online, intelligence is very important. Check your profile for spelling and grammatical errors because that will chase away quality women. Be caring when you message these girls and ask about them, but do not, by any means, harass them. If she's not interested, just leave it alone.
There are some pretty basic and genuine signs of attraction that women give off. Some of them are really easy notice such as: maintained eye contact, smiling, and playing with her hair. Girls will also turn their bodies towards you when you are talking, sometimes creating a sense of "isolation" within the group. When a girl is trying to get your attention or for you to notice her, that is also a pretty good indication that she is interested. If a girl is unintentionally showing you the insides of her wrists and hands then that is also a pretty good indication that she is attracted to you.
If You Can't Find Love, Then It Is Completely And Totally Your Fault
Observe the masses and do the opposite... NOW! Before you die...
In a city the size of Los Angeles, who could argue that there aren't PLENTY of major opportunities passing you by every single day of every single week?
Well, based on statistics that I have calculated unofficially, those of you who are mentioned in this article could definitely find room for such an argument... which is why I am writing this especially for you.
As a Confidence/ Life Coach to successful and marriage-oriented men and women over 35, I have heard this terrible excuse a million times.... and it shocks me to death why we simply allow ourselves to grow older day by day and continue to do nothing about it.
We simply prefer to complain and mope. (Excuse me while I pull out my miniature violin and play it while you continue to whine to all of your family and friends..."Woe is me.."
"I just don't know where to meet nice guys/women that I want to date."
My jagged and heartless response: Consider yourself a lazy, unimaginative dork who simply deserves what you've gotten until now.........nothing.
Pretty harsh words, eh? Listen pal. Maybe a little injection of reality will do you some good. Now sit up straight and pay attention.
The truth of the matter is this: In practically every situation as a coach over the last 4 years, the culprit is quite apparent: IT'S YOU! You just don't want it bad enough. Let's face it...you are simply not WILLING to put the effort in.
* You are simply not willing to drive more than 15-20 minutes from home. "It's too far!" (So, romance and love is not worth the extra effort?)
* You are simply not willing to explore and experience NEW and DIFFERENT places where interesting people hang out. (Ever heard of the LA or OC Weekly?)
* You are simply not willing to go out during the week. "I'm too tired!" (Too tired? Are you kidding me? Shouldn't you be too tired of being alone instead?)
* You are simply not willing to go out and explore life by yourself. (You'd rather drag your unmotivated and single loser friend with you....perfect association dynamic here.)
* You limit yourself to going out on weekends only. (Think about it....you've set in place a full 28% effort (2/7days a week) to get what you really and truly want. Wow, I guess you get out what you put in, right?)
Should I keep going?
This is not rocket science. It is simply sheer, pathetic, self- pity at it's very best combined with a crazy and completely unrealistic hope that love and the exciting connection of romance will simply saunter on up to you and kiss you on the cheek.
Yeah, that'll happen.
